Is there a great guy you’re interested in who isn’t asking you out, or who doesn’t seem to notice you?
If you’re spinning your wheels wondering “is he interested?” then you might just want to skip all the trouble and simply get him to take notice and ask you out.
*Quick Tip: What you need to know first is that the name of the game here with a man is all about creating OPPORTUNITIES for him to approach you.
Here’s how to get his attention…
Get His Attention Using Your Body Language
Let me be honest with you and tell you something about men you may not quite get when you’re wondering how to catch the attention of a good man-
You don’t have to say anything to get a man’s attention.
I’ll explain it this way…
What causes us to feel that “spark” of interest is rarely the perfect word or phrase. More often, it’s triggered by a subtle signal. The signals we send through our body language are fascinating because they are universally understood signals, and are some of the most powerful ones that drive our behavior.
Men are very visual creatures, so it’s no surprise that they respond to body language signals or “cues.” Knowing this, it’s important to remember that if you don’t know what you’re saying with your body language, then odds are you aren’t saying the things you want to be saying.
Some fascinating studies have proven that the most effective body language signals to get a man’s attention might seem simple, but are truly powerful. Here is of the most universal that WORK when you know how to use them with confidence…
Prolonged Eye Contact
Have you ever had that magic moment where you locked eyes with a man and fell into a deep gaze. Suddenly a tingle jumped up your spine and you could tell he was feeling the same thing.
This is one of the most intense ways to create and share a moment with a man that will make him feel an emotional jolt that jump-starts his interest in you.
Just make sure you don’t make the mistake that will cause this to back-fire. Be sure to have more natural amounts of eye contact with a man first and establish a kind of comfortable “base-line.”
If you’re in the same room with a man, try and meet eyes with him once or twice before you lock eyes with him. Smile softly and look away. Then, once you know he’s noticed you, be confident in locking into eye contact and keeping your gaze fixed on him for at least 4-6 seconds. If he looks away, let him look away first and keep looking and smile gently.
Repeat this and you’ll be raising a man’s pulse and he’ll almost certainly come over and talk to you. If he doesn’t, feel free to give him a playful wave of your hand and invite him over to you. It’s an easy way to open up an opportunity for him, but not be too extended or seem desperate.
Get His Attention By Triggering His Attraction
What’s the most important thing to make a man feel if you’re looking to have his undivided attention and focus on you as a woman? While body language is powerful, the subtleties of body language are really all about trigger that magic emotion called attraction in a man.
Attraction is not something a man will feel for you just by talking to him, being his friend or having everyday conversations. Attraction is an intense emotion that comes from the unexpected.
If you make a man feel that intense attraction for you, he’ll not only notice you and pay attention… but you’ll stick in his mind and he won’t be able to stop thinking about you.
One of the keys of creating attraction with a man is Unpredictability. If a man can guess everything you do and say, and you never surprise him through your words or actions… it’s very unlikely that he’ll experience that unusual intense emotion of attraction with you. You’ll never create that “spark” in his heart and mind.
As strange as it sounds, another key to creating attraction with a man is Predictability. A man can sense whether or not a woman has a level of stability and well-being in her life from early on. If a man senses that you’re healthy emotionally and socially his interest will grow and he’ll feel more comfortable opening up and getting close to you.
A man can feel 2 types of attraction for a man. If you’d like to learn the secrets of what else you can to do and say to create what I call “Emotional Attraction” in a man that goes beyond the common Physical Attraction, then you should check this out that’s all about attraction.
Talk soon.
Christian
