“Am I ready to date?”
Maybe you’re struggling with this question, after having your heartbroken! Let me help you get to the bottom of this…
I’m going to ask you a few questions… answer them honestly. These answers will help you find out if you’re ready to start dating again. And more: are you ready to find true love?
Can you think of a time or experience with a man when you FEEL LIKE it was YOU who screwed up?
Maybe you got a little jealous over something small? maybe you lost control over your emotions when you were with him?
Or perhaps you became paralyzed with fear that the guy in your life wouldn’t like you? Or he’d get tired of you, or that he’ll leave you for someone else?
Have you ever met a great man and found yourself thinking about him all the time? You find yourself so afraid that you’ll lose him that you start emailing, calling, and trying to secretly know or guess what he is doing at all times.
Or maybe you keep attracting the wrong men… men who want to be mothered, who want you to give up your friends and hobbies to be at his beck and call. Do you find yourself giving up your life just to make him happy, because you are afraid of the alternative?
Or perhaps you’ve gotten so sad about the lack of love in your life that you’ve begun to feel that you don’t deserve love from an exceptional man who truly cares about you… And that you will never feel ready to date again.
These situations are incredibly painful, not just because it often causes the man you like to run away… but because you know, deep down, you wonder if it was YOUR FAULT!
It wasn’t him. Or the situation. Or the full moon. It was your feelings and actions that drove him away.
Let me start by saying: IT WASN’T YOUR FAULT!
BE Ready To Date Again – By Understanding How Men Think
When faced with these difficult realizations, what do you do?
Are you secretly waiting for the RIGHT MAN to show up who will see past the fear, anxiety, and out of control emotions and instead love you for who you are?
That if you could just meet the right man, all of your problems, fears, and disappointments would simply go away?
I think we’ve all felt this way at one time or another. It’s nice and comforting to think that one day we will all meet the love of our lives and live happily ever after. In fact, this fairytale has been burned into our minds since we were all very young.
Only problem is… that’s not going to happen.
It is very dangerous to allow ourselves to believe this fairytale, because it allows us to overlook the real source of the problem.
Now pay attention, because what I am about to tell you is BIG:
Your fear, anxiety, insecurity and out of control emotions won’t be SOLVED by a great man.
Many of us hold onto a subconscious belief that someone is going to come along and see us for who we truly are inside… Recognize our beauty, and accept us wholly for who we are.
And while this does happen every once in a while, the reality is if YOU’re not the one who sees and recognizes it YOURSELF first, then the odds of someone else coming along and doing it are very small.
A real man… the kind of man you want to be with… is looking for a woman: a lover, a queen, a goddess.
Someone to love him and challenge him. Not someone who he has to “fix.”
However, in order to be that mature, attractive, confident woman, you need to learn how to understand your own emotions and break through the barriers that are keeping you from a happy relationship with the man of your dreams.
And yes, dealing with our internal demons is some of the hardest work we can do…
Our fears and insecurities are deep rooted, and often hidden from our own consciousness. Getting rid of them requires help.
That’s where I come in.
Transform Yourself Into A Love Magnet
“Readiness” is not an external factor. It’s not about how long it’s been since you broke up, or how you broke up. You’ll feel “ready” when you’re open to working on yourself — becoming a LOVE MAGNET that will attract the right guy for you.
I like to think of your own emotional and internal state as a kind of “magnet“ when it comes to your relationship.
When you don’t know what you want, what to do, and know what’s going on inside you… then you don’t have a very strong “charge“ to your own internal magnet.
And you don’t have much ability to pull things towards you without a whole lot of work.
But you realize that you’re ready to find and date a great man when you get yourself in “alignment“ and are in the right internal and emotional state, you start to create a very powerful change or force that instantly draws things to you.
You know that feeling when you’re “in the groove“ and things just come to you, one after the other? It’s like there’s a powerful force that is bringing happiness and good things into your life and your day. But it’s NOT an external force – it’s an internal force that you can magnify to draw happiness and love to you EVERY DAY.
You can very quickly “align“ with this powerful force inside you when it comes to true and lasting LOVE…
Wouldn’t knowing how to find that more balanced place – where emotional fulfillment, love, and joy come easier – give you back the confidence and certainty you know you want and need… regardless of what challenges come at you in your relationship?
Would it be nice to no longer be racked with jealousy, fear, insecurity and worry?
It’s Time To Get Started
Here’s how to start the transformation, so you can be READY to DATE and LOVE again:
- Start noticing and eliminating any self-destructive habits you may have that are spoiling your chances of creating an open, loving relationship with the man you want
- Tap into and bring out the magical center of essence inside of you… giving yourself a powerful aura of CONFIDENCE and WARMTH that Mr. Right can’t help but notice…
- Prevent yourself from becoming overwhelmed by the deadly enemies of jealousy, fear and sadness… so you can keep a clear mind and always do what’s best for your relationship
- Avoid the mistake of getting love and affection from the nearest man instead of the right man
Stop wondering if you’re ready, or what it takes to be ready.
Start working on opening your mind to learning how men think about dating and relationships, so you can be fully aware of how your behavior comes across in his mind.
You’re not doing anything wrong– you just haven’t learned the RIGHT thing to do yet. And that’s what I hope to help you with.
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All the happiness in life and love,
Jason