5 Tips To Get ANY Guy To Fall In Love With You – No Tricks, No Games!
Ever met a man who you thought you shared an incredible connection with, but you’re not sure if he really likes you?
He might not text back right away, or not make plans with you. You feel great around him, and the conversation flows. You both connect with each other and have all kinds of unbelievable things in common.
But you wish you’d hear from him more often, and you start wondering what you can do to get him to like you.. the same way you like him.
First of all, let me tell you something REALLY IMPORTANT — I have 5 tips you can apply right away to get “the right guy” to like you. And they work! But here’s the thingâŚ
It’s possible this guy is not for you. Maybe he’s emotionally insecure, immature, or unavailable, or just a player! So before deciding if you want to use these tips I’m about to teach you, take a moment to evaluate if he is the right guy for you.
I want to empower you to know that you do deserve GREAT LOVE in your life — so I won’t teach you ways to manipulate or trick a guy⌠I don’t believe in doing that. These things don’t work long term, so let’s not waste your precious time.
Start Here: What NOT To Do If you Want To Get A Guy To Like You
- Don’t Freak Out When You Realize How Much YOU Like Him
I know this can happen to anybody⌠You start realizing how much a guy is starting to mean to you, and in the back of your mind it kind of freaks you out.
Your mind races with fear and anxiety. But to keep it together, you put faith in the situation and in this man. You tell yourself that it’s different this time, and that he isn’t one of those other guys.
And it’s then that the dating and relationship nightmares from your past flash back in your mindâŚ
Maybe you’ve gone through more than one really hard break up, and maybe you’re still healing from past experiences. It’s ok to go through that and feel vulnerable, to fear another heartbreak.
But remember– each individual is different, and each situation is different⌠Don’t let anxiety and fear get in the way of connecting with this new guy right in front of you.
- Don’t Try To Convince Him He Should Be With You
You want him to like you, but you want him to realize by himself he likes you⌠not convince him with arguments, compliments, or showing how great you guys are “on paper. “
Just like a pushy salesman trying to get you to buy something, trying to convince a man that he should be in a relationship with you would work against you. He’ll want you LESS if you try that.
Why? Because convincing feels unnatural. You want to FEEL IT emotionally, and you want HIM to feel it too. His feelings should tell him all he needs to know.
So What To Do Instead? How To Get A Guy To Like You?
Follow these 5 Tips — and let me know how they work for you!
Tip #1 – SET YOUR BOUNDARIES
Set your goals, set your intentions about the relationship, and be open and honest when speaking to him about it. Pretending you don’t want anything serious and keeping on sleeping with the man “casually” in hopes that things will grow from the “physical relationship” into a long term life together is not going to work.
If he says he wants to keep things casual, or maybe he wants to see other women⌠ask yourself if that’s ok with you. Set your boundaries and be assertive. If you’re NOT comfortable with tell him and walk away.
It’s not a game. It’s not an ultimatum.
He might walk awayâŚ
But if he doesn’t, he just might be the right guy for you, and he’ll like you for WHO YOU ARE — not who you pretended to be.
Tip #2 – BE HONEST ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT
Staying close to him by trying to become his “best friend” in hopes that he’ll like you and start developing stronger feelings is not the way to go.
He’ll see you as a friend, but if you want more than that, be honest and open about it.
Lots of friends fall in love, that’s true. But even more don’t. That’s just a reality.
If you’re trying to be his friend because you want the friendship, GREAT! But don’t do it because you’re hoping that’s the best path for him to recognize how great you are and start liking you!
Be honest to yourself, and to him.
Tip #3 – BE INDEPENDENT
Lots of women mistakenly believe that men are looking for a âweakerâ woman who will make them feel like they are smarter and more powerful.
Nothing could be farther from the truth.
REAL MEN like a woman who INSPIRES them because she has great things going on in her own life. They want a woman who has her own purpose other than being in a relationship.
Don’t give up on your dreams to become more “accessible” to a guy.
There’s a big myth out there that men are intimidated by independent women.
A man isnât âintimidatedâ by independence and success. What matters to a man is that a woman still has space in her life for a great relationship and is grounded and present when sheâs with him.
Tip #4 – AVOID ALL GAMES
I hear all sorts of ideas when people write to me in response to my advice newsletters. Some readers suggest trying to make him jealous, pretending you have plans when he asks you out, arranging so he can see you with other guysâŚ
These are games. It’s manipulation. And it doesn’t work.
Put yourself in his shoes– would you like someone who was doing that to you?
A good, decent, sensitive guy won’t fall for that. And you want nothing less!
There’s a way to make him like you and even chase you, without games or manipulation. Actually creating deep emotional attraction with you. I speak about these in detail in my eBook and Newsletters.
Tip #5 – BE PLAYFUL
I’ll end with this tip because I think it’s SO IMPORTANT, and I want it to stick with you.
Thereâs something that drives men wild and invites them into a deeper level of âconnectionâ â play.
Men love to be active and to play. They were raised to express themselves and connect with those around them through ACTION.
Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to TALK TALK TALK their way into a manâs heart. But the fact is that men donât âfeel itâ for you because of what you SAY.
Itâs not the words⌠It’s the experience.
Do things with him â watch or play sports together, be competitive in casual games like ping pong, even add a little teasing and sarcasm here and there, and youâll really ramp up the attraction and interest.
That’s the best shortcut to get a guy to like you. Just be playful, joyful… or as guys say, a “cool girl.”
As always, with all of my advice, my goal is to EMPOWER you. Take your time to understand men, and how they think about love, dating, and relationships.
That’s why I’m here– I want to help you understand the male mind and have the love life you always dreamed of.
Why do I do that? Read my story hereâŚ
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All the happiness in life and love,
Jason